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Is it OK for you to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend what they can and can’t wear?

No, it’s never OK to try and control what someone wearsMaybe, they might just want their boyfriend or girlfriend to look their bestYes, that’s perfectly OK

Controlling what your boyfriend or girlfriend wears can be a sign of an unhealthy or abusive relationship. People should be free to be themselves when they’re in a relationship, and this means they should be able to choose what they wear too. It’s their choice and that should be respected.

Is it OK to try and control what your boyfriend or girlfriend does because you’re scared of losing them?

Yes, if you’re worried that they might dump youMaybe, if you really don’t want to lose themNo, you shouldn’t try and control their behaviour, no matter how you feel

It’s never OK if you try to stop your boyfriend or girlfriend from doing something because you’re scared of losing them. If one person wants to leave the relationship, then that is their choice – and it should always be respected.

If you know your friend was always checking their boyfriend or girlfriend’s phone, emails or social media, would you think it’s relationship abuse?

No, it’s normal for someone to check what their boyfriend or girlfriend is up to and who they’re speaking toMaybe, but if they’re nice normally and perhaps it’s a sign that they careYes, it’s abusive and it’s definitely not ok

When someone is continually questioning who their boyfriend or girlfriend is spending time with or is checking their phone or emails, this might not seem that serious but they can both be examples of relationship abuse. Healthy relationships are built on trust.

If you’ve had sex with someone before, do you need to get consent to have sex with them again?

Yes, you both have to give consent every timeNo, you only need to get consent from somebody onceYou only need to get consent from someone if you’re not dating

If you have had sex with somebody before, you can’t assume it’s going to be ok to have sex with them again, even if you’re in a relationship. You both have to give consent to each other every time.

If one of your friends showed you naked pictures of their girlfriend or boyfriend on their phone, is that OK?

Yes, it’s normal – everyone does it, it’s just a bit of fun.Maybe, if they’re an ex No, it’s a form of abuse and it’s definitely not OK – whatever the situation.

It’s never OK for somebody to share or show private pics of anyone else without that person’s agreement. Also, if their boyfriend or girlfriend is under the age of 18, it’s breaking the law to have the picture on your phone or share it.

If your boyfriend or girlfriend sent you a nude pic on your phone because they wanted to and you’re both under 18, is it OK because you’re in a relationship?

Yes, it’s fine because they wanted to send it to me and we’re in a relationshipMaybe, as long as they wanted to send it to me and I keep it privateNo, it’s not OK, it’s against the law

If you are under 18 years old, you’re a child in the eyes of the law. So having any indecent images or videos of somebody who is under 18 means you’d technically be in possession of an indecent image of a child – even if you’re the same age. This could get you into serious trouble.

Is the type of sex you see in porn, the type of sex you can expect in real life?

Yes, that’s how everybody has sexIt depends. Everybody has different preferences, but by and large it’s normally unrealisticNo, porn is completely fake and nothing like sex in real life

Most porn isn’t realistic of what happens in happy and healthy relationships. The way people look and the things they do are often exaggerated, so watching this can make you think what they’re doing is normal and everyone would like it.

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